No JWs in their early twenties follow all the stupid rules set by parents or elders or their busybody wives when they are in lust with eachother. Where there is a will there is a way. There are those who get caught, and there are those that don’t.
You should fuck at a minimum 5 men before you even think of marriage. It is just that important. You can be blinded by affections only to find out your life is one giant sexual frustration when you marry the guy that you didn’t test out or you marry a guy with no other experiences to measure him with.
Just do it. Go out of town on some false pretense (cover your ass) and be the adults you are. Then do it again as many times as you want.
Then when it’s out of your system, you won’t feel forced to marry just to get laid.
Or do it again with someone new.
Don’t become some guys masturbatory tool on your wedding night.